Showing posts with label Warrior. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Warrior. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Masculine vs. Feminine - Core Archetypes

Your Masculine and Feminine Core Archetypes: How Are They Different?

 

Have you wondered yet how much you really need the archetypes of the "other gender" in your life? That is, if you're a man, have you wondered how much you "really need" the four core feminine archetypes? And if you're a woman, have you wondered how much you "really need" the masculine qualities in your life?

Yin and Yang not only embody classic masculine and feminine qualities, but each carries the "seed" of one within the other

If so, you're not alone.

 

Congratulations - You've Found One of the Top Blog Posts in The Unveiling Journey

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Whether by luck or by design, you've come to the fourth most popular blogpost in The Unveiling Journey since the blog was started in 2007. (The six "most popular" blogs are selected by statistics current as of October 22, 2013. This one is actually the best on this topic to date.)

Since then, we've moved the entire blog series to a new location.

Here are some great reading choices:

 

Why the Transition to a New Blog Site?

  • Better Intralinking: You'll find related blogposts easier (look at the end of this post on the new site for good links),
  • Better Categories and Tags: Interested in a related topic? Want to see what else is covered? Look in the right-hand sidebar on the new site - check out the Categories (main topics) and Tags (people, books, events, and sub-topics), and
  • Improved Resources: Look for a Resources Page (main header menu); it will give you a different kind of access to related topics - from the antecedents (books inspiring this ongoing work) to future directions.

 

See you over there - and thank you!

 

Alay'nya (Alianna J. Maren, Ph.D.)

 

Post edited and content moved to The Unveiling Journey website, specifically to the The Masculine vs. Feminine - Core Archetypes blogpost on Tuesday, October 22, 2013. Original post February 12, 2013.

Sunday, February 5, 2012

A Strong "Inner Amazon" - Our Most Powerful Ally!

Our "Inner Amazon" - Strength at Our Service


When Antonia Wolff, the protege of Carl Jung, intuited her understanding of the four "modes" that made up the feminine psyche, she did a great job of describing three "feminine" or "soft" archetypes, and one that she labeled the Amazon. She published her work as a pamphlet; Structural Forms of the Feminine Psyche.



Wolff's delineation gives us a very useful way to "look inside ourselves." Functionally, we each have eight core archetypes (four masculine, and four feminine), and six of these (three masculine, and three feminine) are our power archetypes. These are the ones - according to the Kabbalah (and shown visually in the Major Arcana) - that we need to cultivate in order to become a fully integrated person. (The remaining two, it seems, are those which we naturally use as "rest-and-recharge" modes.)

When we women "look inside ourselves," we easily see our three feminine modes or archetypes; our wise, intuitive, and calm High Priestess, our loving and nurturing Isis or Empress, and our sensual, fun-loving, and playful Hathor or Love-Goddess. We can also easily discern our feminine "rest-and-recharge" mode; Hestia. This is when we clean house in order to clean out our heads.

Because we live in a masculine-dominant world, we see the masculine roles very easily as well. Thus, it is easy for us to discern when we are being in any of our three masculine power archetypes; our creative and visionary Magician, our organizing and managing Emperor, or our guiding and coaching Hierophant. We can also discern when we are in our masculine rest-and-recharge mode, or Green Man. (For women, the Artemis imagery is useful; think of Women Who Run with the Wolves.)

As a side note: If we were male, it would be easy for us to "lump together" our three feminine power archetypes into one. This would be a convenient kind of emotional shorthand. Moore and Gillette did this when they described the four core masculine archetypes as King, Warrior, Magician, Lover. In their "typology," they've combined all three feminine power archetypes into one, and called it the Lover. Not completely accurate, but useful. Or rather, this is as useful a shorthand for men as it is for women to think about their inner Amazon. Each is a compound of three modes, but each of these "compound archetypes" has something in common.

So what is it that characterizes our inner Amazon, and makes her so distinctly different from our other three feminine power archetypes? And at the same time, we could be asking ourselves: What is distinctly different about the Lover "compound archetype" that makes it unique when compared with the three power masculine archetypes? (These are the Emperor, Magician, and Hierophant - Moore and Gillette missed this last one, and instead substituted the Warrior archetype - which is transition mode, not a power archetype. More on that in some future blog.)

The answer is simple. (Keep in mind, now, that we're talking archetypes - overarching and really rather simple modes, and that we each have some aspects of each of these archetypes in us.)

The masculine archetypes are all Judging, to use Jung's terminology. That means, they are all "come-to-closure" archetypes. (This is what Jung meant with Judging; this is not about being "judgmental" about people.) The feminine archetypes are all Perceiving; that is, they are more open-ended. They are open to possibilities and connections.

In short, the basic "male psychology" (each of the core masculine power archetypes) likes to compartmentalize-and-complete. The basic "feminine psychology" (each of the core feminine power archetypes) likes to connect-connect-connect. This insight is what led authors Bill and Pam Farrell to write their book, Men Are Like Waffles - Women Are Like Spaghetti: Understanding and Delighting in Your Differences.



So with all of this as a frame of reference, we now understand that what our inner Amazon does for us as women is to give us the masculine strength of "getting things done."

And is this ever a useful gift!

One of the best things that we can do to empower our inner feminine archetypes is to have a strong Amazon living in service of our feminine core. She gets things done, she protects and defends, she provides strong boundaries. Within the boundaries that our Amazon establishes, we get let ourselves go. We can be soft and vulnerable. We can be as "diffuse" as we desire. We can connect-connect-connect - knowing that our Amazon put some structure around our connecting.

Our Amazon is valuable. She is our strongest ally. And the more that we cultivate her, the more we are able to let ourselves go safely into our feminine core. Sounds a bit contradictory, but worth considering. So why not make this a journal topic over the month of February? Re-ignite a hot, sexy, voluptuous love affair with yourself. And let your inner Amazon "live to serve the Queen"!

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Moore and Gillette, "King, Warrior, Magician, Lover" - 2 1/3 Out of Four Ain't Bad!

Moore and Gillette's "Archetypes of the Mature Masculine" - Most (Although Not All) of the "Mature Man"


I'm enormously grateful to authors Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette for their in-depth and fascinating work, King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Archetypes of the Mature Masculine. They do a great service to all of us - women and men alike. And as this book is a prequel to a further set of four books (addressing each of these specific archetypes in the masculine context), I suggest each of them for further reading.



I particularly like and appreciate that in their introduction, authors Moore and Gillette identify that the reason that we have a hard time cultivating mature masculinity in our culture is a combination of three factors: (1) The breakdown of family, in which we all too often have a weak or absent father, (2) Current lack of an effective "initiation ritual" so that boys can become men, and (3) A "patriarchal system" that really is based on an immature, rather than mature, masculinity - and is thus wounding both men and women in our culture.

Their insights and exemplars are excellent; well-thought-out, well-worked, and well-explained. Their work can help men of all ages - and women as well as men - understand masculine psychology in depth.

What is missing? Only one of the core masculine power archetypes - and a somewhat "bundled together" set of the three core feminine power archetypes.

 

Congratulations - You've Found One of the Top Blog Posts in The Unveiling Journey

Congratulations!

Whether by luck or by design, you've come to the fifth most popular blogpost in The Unveiling Journey since the blog was started in 2007. (The six "most popular" blogs are selected by statistics current as of October 22, 2013.)

Since then, we've moved the entire blog series to a new location.

Here are some great reading choices:

 

Why the Transition to a New Blog Site?

  • Better Intralinking: You'll find related blogposts easier (look at the end of this post on the new site for good links),
  • Better Categories and Tags: Interested in a related topic? Want to see what else is covered? Look in the right-hand sidebar on the new site - check out the Categories (main topics) and Tags (people, books, events, and sub-topics), and
  • Improved Resources: Look for a Resources Page (main header menu); it will give you a different kind of access to related topics - from the antecedents (books inspiring this ongoing work) to future directions.

 

See you over there - and thank you!

 

Alay'nya (Alianna J. Maren, Ph.D.)

 

Post edited and content moved to The Unveiling Journey website, specifically to the Moore and Gillette, King, Warrior, Magician, Lover - 2 1/3 Out of Four Ain’t Bad! blogpost on Tuesday, October 22, 2013. Original post December 13, 2011.

Thursday, September 22, 2011

The "Hero's Quest" and the "Hierophant" - Part 1

The Warrior's Road to Wisdom: Going from the "Hero's Quest" to the "Hierophant"


In Star Wars, Luke Skywalker, beholding the devastation that once was his uncle's farm, has no choice. Not only is there no "going back," there is nothing left to "go back to." He seeks out his new teacher, Obi-Wan Kenobi, more out of desperation than desire to go off "adventuring." Yet, as his training and his travels unfold, he finds himself on a Hero's Quest; one of the grandest sagas of our time.

Princess Isabelle, in a "The Embryo Goddess and the Morpho," a short story written by Nicole Cutts, Ph.D. (in Many Paths, Many Feet, edited by Phyllis Wilson), leaves the safety of her Queen Mother's love and her King Father's castle, and ventures off to reclaim a portion of her father's lands and restore the kingdom.

The young Tamino, in Mozart's The Magic Flute, undergoes the trials of initiation into the priesthood of the Sun God worshippers. In The Karate Kid, young Daniel simply wants to survive the daily humiliations of martial arts-skilled school bullies.

Is there something is common to all these stories, and to many other stories of heroic adventure?

As it turns out, they share a great deal in common - so much so that the great Joseph Campbell identified the underlying story-structure of all of these as the monomyth. As he described it, there is only one great story or grand saga. It has a consistent structure. And it underlies all the great stories of human "becoming." The monomyth describes the journey of Jason and his Argonauts, as they searched for the Golden Fleece. This monomyth similarly underlies many of our current "grand sagas" - both in myth, movies and books, and in our personal lives.

The reason that certain monomyth retellings achieve huge cultural resonance (Star Wars-like resonance) with us is not just the quality of the movie or the book. Rather, it is that the movie, book, or even someone's personal history faithfully adheres to the core monomyth storyline.

Monomyths are compelling. They pull us along; they sweep us away. When we go through our own Hero's Quest or Heroine's Journey, we undergo a profound personal transformation. We have left the warmth of nurturing love, and the security of a known environment. We even give up our "identity."

Think of Aragorn, in the Lord of the Rings trilogy. Yes, the monomyth there is being largely carried out by the young hobbits. However, Aragorn as much as the hobbits is on his Hero's Quest. In classic heroic manner, he travels - not as a prince of the realm, with servants and retinue - but under an assumed name, as the Chieftan of the Rangers of the North. He has relinquished identification with his "true name" and "true heritage" until he has successfully concluded his Heroic Quest; reuniting the kingdoms of Gondor and Arnor.

We have many Heroine's Quest stories as well; Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz is an early prototype. Sarah in the Labyrinth, and Lyra in The Golden Compass are other young heroines. Each of them steps into their quest to rescue someone whom they know and love. Dorothy wants to rescue her dog Toto, and Sarah seeks to rescue her baby half-brother, Toby. Lyra searches for her friend Roger, and for other children taken by the Gobblers.

Heroic Quests can take on many forms and guises. Consistent to all of them - Hero's Quests and Heroine's Quests alike - is the moment when the young Hero/Heroine leaves safety, security, and a well-defined (although limiting) role.

Similarly, we each take on a Heroic Quest - often many times in our lives! When we leave home to go off to college, or join the military, we are beginning a personal Heroic Quest.

When we start a new business, leaving behind the safety, security, well-defined structure, comforting companionship, and certain role of corporate life, we are beginning a new Heroic Quest.

We can undertake Heroic Quests within a corporate structure as well. If we champion a new product or idea; whenever we go into Warrior mode, we are questing.

Questing, although arduous and dangerous, is exciting, More than that, it is self-defining. It is the process by which we individuate; become our own person. We find courage, step out from our parent's home, or the security of a corporate paycheck, and forge our own pathway. It is through this forging - which may take many years, and require severe and lengthy training (think Luke Skywalker; think Aragorn) - that we become that which we were meant to be. The higher the calling - be it Jedi Knight or Ruler of the united Gondor/Arnor kingdoms - the more difficult, lengthy, and perilous the journey.

Because it is so intense and so self-defining, with such a clear end in sight, we might think that questing leads us to our final goal; that it is the "single defining journey" of our adult lives.

Surpisingly, not so. In fact, even if we undertake successive Heroic Quests, there is still a realm beyond. So suppose that we leave home to go to college, and then get an advanced degree. That's one Quest. Suppose that we get a corporate job, and spearhead a new initiative within the company. That's another Quest. Suppose that we then strike out and form our own company; yet another Quest. We can go questing all our lives.

But there really is more. There is indeed a "life beyond the Heroic Journey." And it is not at all staid and boring! Rather, the journeys of a mature adult, while often more "inner" than "outer," have just as much challenge as our youthful, self-defining questing - perhaps even more!

A Heroic Quest is obvious. Everyone - including ourselves - knows what we are doing. We are re-uniting the severed kingdoms, getting the "Ring of Power" into Mordor, writing a dissertation, climbing a mountain, or rescuing someone in distress. Our goal and our focus is clear. Further, we shape who we are in the process.

In contrast, the "journeys" that we may undertake as mature adults - something that we may do after we've successfully completed a Heroic Quest (or two or three) can be much less overt. Those around us may not even know that we undertaking some sort of "inner journey." In fact, we ourselves may not even know it - until we come through the other side and say to ourselves, "I really have changed!"

So how do we know the difference? How can we tell if we are on a Heroic Quest, or doing something different? What lies beyond questing? And are there signposts or guides, so that we can know what we're doing?

That will be the theme of the next blogpost - and perhaps a few more afterwards!

In the meantime, if you have a copy of Robert Moore's King, Warrior, Magician, Lover - take a look. There's an error in the basic premise. See if you can discern it. (It will help if you've read Chapters 7 and 11 of Unveiling: The Inner Journey.)

More to be revealed in coming posts.

To your health, and the success of your journeys!

Alay'nya


P.S. There's a clue - and it's in the title of this post. What's the role of the Hierophant? How does the Hierophant relate to our Heroic Quest (if at all)? See if you can figure this out before my next posting!